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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

5 Lessons in Contentment from Billionaires Warren Buffett & Charlie Munger

I sat in a crowd of 45,000 about 10 days ago, watching super-billionaire investors Warren Buffett and Charlie Munger riff off each other and deliver quick wit and worldly wisdom about finances and life in general, at the famous Berkshire Hathaway Annual Shareholders Meeting in Omaha.

As I listened to these titans of the investing world, it struck me how content they are.

Not just content because they have all the riches in the world and all their needs met (they do), but because they understand fundamentals of contentment with life, which I believe is a superpower.

It was amazing to listen to these two masters talk about investing, but learn lessons in contentment throughout the investing advice.

Today, in anticipation of my upcoming, free ebook, “The Little Book of Contentment“, I’d like to share what I learned from Warren and Charlie.

I’d like to thank my friends Jake & Lonnie of Farnham Street Investments (and Mike & Scott of Cumbre Capital) for the once-in-a-lifetime trip.

The key lessons:

“Find what turns you on.” Warren said this in response to a question about what advice he’d give to his younger self 50 years ago. He wasn’t talking about sex, but about what you do for a living. And while we’ve all heard “Do what you love”, it’s telling that this is the one thing he’d tell his younger self — it’s that important to happiness. If you do what turns you on, you will be much further along the road to contentment.Don’t worry about what everyone else is doing. Charlie, who is impressively intelligent, said one of the big advantages that Berkshire Hathaway has had is that Warren & Charlie don’t need to worry about what everyone else is doing (in the investment world). Too many people get caught up in watching everyone else, and letting that influence them, that they lose their inner compass. Instead, figure out the guiding principles that matter the most to you, and let go of the need to check on what everyone else is doing, and the need to compare what you’re doing with everyone else.Know your strengths. These two guys are very aware of their limitations — they almost never invest in tech companies, for example, because they don’t understand it well — and instead of feeling the need to go into their weak areas, they stay with their strong areas. They know what they’re strong at, and focus on that. Letting go of the need to do everything, and being happy with focusing on less, is an important contentment lesson.Fewer and higher quality. Warren & Charlie have a “fewer is better” investment philosophy, where they aren’t nearly as active as your usual Wall Street investor … but they focus on a handful of really strong investments. Warren suggests that investors imagine they have a punchcard with 20 punch holes … once you make 20 investments in your lifestime, your punchcard is used up. If you did this, you’d really make them count. This is the guiding principle, btw, in my book The Power of Less. You don’t need more — instead, be more discerning, and happy with less.Know what you like and forget the rest. Warren Buffet, one of the world’s wealthiest men, has a nice but modest house and a surprisingly modest Cadillac (that he drives himself), and eats at his favorite (but pretty ordinary) restaurants … he can afford much more extravagance, but forgoes it because he knows the simple things he likes in life. He could have much, much more, but knows that he doesn’t need it. How many of us do that? Just enjoy the things we like, and not worry about what else we could be enjoying, or what everyone else is enjoying.

There will be some who say, “Sure, it’s easy to be content when you’re rich and successful,” but I think this is missing the point. They are successful because of these lessons.

I learned that inspiration for contentment can be found in surprising places, including in Omaha, where everyone I met had a kind word for me, and a smile on their faces. I left with a smile myself.

Do you have questions about contentment? Share them with me here.


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Monday, March 5, 2012

Secrets can take many forms: Frank Warren at TED2012

“Hi, my name’s Frank, and I collect secrets.” That’s Frank Warren, the founder of PostSecret.

He started with a crazy idea. In November 2005, he made 3000 postcards with simple instructions. It was blank on one side, and on the other instructions telling them to write an anonymous secret and mail it to him. He passed the postcards out randomly. It took off. People began to buy the postcards — they began to make their own. Secrets began arriving with postmarks from all over the nation, then the world.

His crazy idea didn’t seem so crazy. PostSecret is now the most visited advertisement-free blog in the world, and there are many, many secrets. He shows a photo of his wife, stacking bricks of postcards on a pyramid of over a half a million.

Then, he shares some secrets.

“I give decaf to customers who are rude to me.” This one, says Warren, shows the creativity of secrets. It was mailed in on a Starbucks coffee cup that someone had cut apart and addressed to him.

“Dear birthmother – I have great parents. I’ve found love. I’m happy.” 

“Everyone who knew me before 9/11 believes I’m dead.” (There is a profound silence in the room.) Says Warren: “Secrets can remind us of the countless human dramas, playing out silently in the lives of people all around us.”

They can even be personal to him, as audience members at a different talk sent him, “Your mic wasn’t off during sound-check. We all heard you pee.”

“Inside this envelope is the ripped up remains of a suicidde note I didn’t use. I feel like the happiest person on Earth now.”

“That Saturday when you wondered where I was, well, I was getting your ring. It’s in my pocket right now.” That one was a proposal from a man who read PostSecret every Sunday with his girlfriend. They later sent Warren a postcard showing her answer: “Yes.”

“One of these men is the father of my son. He pays me a a lot to keep it a secret.”

Secrets inspire others. “I found your camera at lollapolooza this summer. I finally got the pictures, and wanted to give your camera back to you.” The camera never made it back, but it inspired something else: I Found Your Camera, a simple website by Mathew Preprost, where people are reunited with their pictures. Warren read a letter from a woman whose camera was returned after four years — including photos of her son’s birth, and of her then-ailing grandmother.

“When people I love leave voicemails on my phone I always save them in case they die tomorrow and I have no other way of hearing their voice ever again.” When he posted this secret, dozens of people sent voicemails from their phones, some that they’d been keeping for years. (Sniffles in the audience, from all around.)

Warren repeats a phrase from earlier in his talk, “Secrets can take many forms. They can be shocking, silly, and soulful. They can connect us with our deepest humanity, or with people we’ll never meet again.”

And he finishes by playing a voicemail, a message from a grandmother to a young girl, the last time the girl heard her voice. In the message, she sang a happy birthday song. (The audience was in tears, as was the host, June Cohen, and this author.)

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